Food for Thought

I stumbled upon a funny meme today:

I giggled of course, but then it made me pause, "Wait...what?" I've always been deeply interested in psychology, and I was curious if this perhaps had any validity. I was thought back to my own childhood, and I realized I didn't really have a lot of close relationships. My mother was always busy taking care of us or working. We moved constantly (two times a year sometimes), and then came middle school where I was bullied mercilessly. My first love language is Quality Time, followed closely by Words of Affirmation. I mean I do have adhd, so I struggle with rejection sensitivity dysphoria, so it means a lot when I feel wanted and needed. Then I thought about co-dependency and how I am a people pleaser. Perhaps that is why I seek out reassurance. What do you think? I'm curious if you feel like your childhood shaped your love languages or if perhaps it is something else. What is your Love Language, and why is it important to you? I would love to hear your thoughts!